So often, we, as a society, want to place blame on others for any and everything that may go wrong in our lives – divorce, business failure, unemployment, stressful relationships, broken friendships, etc. But is everyone else truly to blame? What did YOU contribute (or not) to these things that may have caused the outcome? Could it be you that is to blame…if not solely, at least partly?
Admitting that self is OR has a problem is a struggle for most. We’d like to believe that we are perfect or flawless…God’s gift to the world if you will. We’d also like to think that people should be thankful for us to grace them with our very existence. The truth is, only a few genuinely like and care for you, while most only tolerate you. But why? Could you be giving off toxic vibes? What exactly does toxic mean?
The world wide web defines toxic as poisonous; very harmful or unpleasant in a pervasive or insidious way. It also describes a person with toxic qualities as anyone who is abusive, unsupportive, or unhealthy emotionally – someone who basically brings you down more than up. Does this sound like anyone you know?
Facing the reality that one may very well be toxic is a hard pill to swallow. As soon as one is ready to take off the mask from the facade many live behind, it will be at that point true healing and growth can occur. Maybe then, one can become humble and recognize their toxic traits, and work to make a change for the better.
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